We are moving. We have anticipated this day. In fact, crazy of crazy, we chose this!
We are thrilled to be constructing a new home. One built for us as “empty nesters”, though not yet there. It’s also being built in hopes it will be an enticement for lots of friends, college girls to return home to, and one day grandchildren to play at. I know. Lofty expectations. I seem to have a problem with high expectations!
As we prepare, although it’s a little hard to say “we”, I am reminded that more often than not, life is a storm before the calm. I know the saying is reversed, but in my life, storm before the calm seems much more appropriate. My schedule often hits storm level before I find my way to decisions about what I am to be engaged in, what is “best” for me/us. The house often hits tornado storm stage, before I see clearly where I want things to b stored/used. So it is with a move. The house is in “controlled” chaos as cabinets are emptied and only what we love and use finds its way to the boxes. Packing 13 years of stuff seems overwhelming. The storm tosses and turns us as we seek to move towards the calm.
Yet, if I am honest (and all of my friends can attest to), I love change. There is something about the storm that energizes me, drives me to activity and dreaming. I push hard and accomplish a great deal. Maybe it’s because I long for the calm and know it will serve as great reward. Whatever it is about me, I love change. I also love houses, and family, and entertaining and well, LIFE! So, how do I survive the storm called ‘moving’? I do it with a plan. I attack it much the same way I attack any organizing project for SOS: Simplified, Organized, Styled.
1. Pick a room and begin there. DO NOT move on to another room until you have pretty much completed that room. I began with the master bedroom. I packed up our out of season clothes-being ruthless as I went. I typically pack clothing and bedding in plastic bins purchased at a discount store. I am going to try some of the new Zip Lock space saver bags. (I’ll try to remember to post my opinion of them.) I then packed up books, recycled all the magazines, and packed the extra set of linens (If you remember from a previous post, I only keep one set of extra linens per bed-we use ‘em ’til they are threadbare and ready for the trash-then purchase a nice new set. Why store linens when 90% of us just wash the set on the bed and put it right back on!) All of these boxes are labeled MASTER and are stacked neatly in a corner.
2. Pick the next room. For me, it is the great room. Books and shelving decor packed first. Then small furniture cleaned and wrapped with protective foam on legs, drawers removed from side tables etc… Once again, these boxes are clearly labeled and stacked together IN the great room.
Continue this process. I generally live by the “15 Minute” rule, but for this project it’s more like the “1.5 hour” rule. Turn a show on and get to it! You’d be amazed how much you get packed and how ruthless you can be about stuff after a full day of work :). My goal is always to have things grouped by room so that as the movers load the truck the items go on the truck in a group. This should mean that as they are unloaded, they come out in groups as well. The plan isn’t perfect, but after 9 moves, I can tell you it is 90% full proof.
I’d write more, but guess what?! Yep, boxes are calling. Remember, there’s always a storm before the calm. Think towards, plan towards the calm. It’ll be all the sweeter AFTER the storm!